tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4078758128653857431.post4818605739519808537..comments2023-05-28T04:58:24.942-04:00Comments on His Kitten: Coming Out of the SilenceKittenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17154453068922306436noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4078758128653857431.post-82307538052018357022008-09-08T15:53:00.000-04:002008-09-08T15:53:00.000-04:00luna: I don't know why, but I do worry about what ...luna: I don't know why, but I do worry about what people will think, although I think the judgments come most from those who have no way of understanding this feeling. But anyway: yes, knowing that just leaving is not an option is a scary and wonderful place to find myself.<BR/><BR/>anon: Thanks for your comment and your concern, but everything is great on this side of the blog :-)<BR/><BR/>Best,<BR/>KittenKittenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17154453068922306436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4078758128653857431.post-35392468964880412762008-09-06T13:25:00.000-04:002008-09-06T13:25:00.000-04:00i'm so glad to hear that you've spoken to him abou...i'm so glad to hear that you've spoken to him about it. your last post left me slightly concerned due to the fact it appeared that your consent had been taken out of the equation.. <BR/>love is a messy business.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4078758128653857431.post-83985840738213869942008-09-06T13:08:00.000-04:002008-09-06T13:08:00.000-04:00sometimes i think you're inside my head, because w...sometimes i think you're inside my head, because what you write is so dead on to what i'm thinking most of the time...<BR/><BR/>i've been at this spot. the one where you want nothing more than to go back to some earlier version of it, when everything was titillating and erotic. sometimes scary, but the safety net of "well, i could just leave," was out there. <BR/><BR/>in theory, because of the way the laws work, we *could* always leave. but it's not that simple, is it. this is where the whole "consensual nonconsent" problem occurs, and people get what *this* is confused with abuse. <BR/><BR/>so yeah, i keep quiet about it, too.luna_luxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10707792554259443893noreply@blogger.com