tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4078758128653857431.post7653217736063274765..comments2023-05-28T04:58:24.942-04:00Comments on His Kitten: Collaring, Part IIKittenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17154453068922306436noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4078758128653857431.post-74317673483350440052009-01-28T14:45:00.000-05:002009-01-28T14:45:00.000-05:00Meta:On your point 2: I didn't reply to any of the...Meta:<BR/><BR/>On your point 2: I didn't reply to any of the comments on the last post because I'm a bit past explaining how I can struggle and waiver, but never doubt that this relationship is right for me. I know you understand that. <BR/><BR/>Anyway, that post was about a thought process I was having during a scene, not how I felt days later even though I posted my thoughts days later. It was a strong emotional reaction to how he was pushing me. I thought that inner emotional experience was so interesting and really highlighted the fear/comfort dynamic that is at the heart of our play.<BR/><BR/>About your point 3, I'm sure there are a lot of people who deal with collars differently. That's cool and I would never begrudge anyone their way of using the collar in their relationship. I didn't have any conception of what the collar is supposed to mean when I got into this, but this is where He has led me...so here I am :-)<BR/><BR/>Best,<BR/>KittenKittenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17154453068922306436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4078758128653857431.post-13843151853974702852009-01-27T18:22:00.000-05:002009-01-27T18:22:00.000-05:00A few things...(1) This is a beautiful fantasy, an...A few things...<BR/><BR/>(1) This is a beautiful fantasy, and I hope it comes true for you.<BR/><BR/>(2) It's really interesting to see you constantly wavering between embracing your submission - as you do here - and pulling away from it - as in your last post. I think it shows a very real, very honest struggle, and I connect with that. My emotions are likewise volatile, and I appreciate how open you are sharing that here. I think that some people jump down your throat when you're having a hard time, without looking at the bigger picture.<BR/><BR/>(3) It's interesting how differently you and your Owner use the concept of collar than my Master and I do. Not better/worse, just different. I can see the appeal of having something like that to work towards, and how meaningful that can be once you get there.Metahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11578787245371476220noreply@blogger.com